You will be surprised by how easily and quickly a little girl talk can turn from innocent chit chat between friends into cruel gossip.
I’m pretty sure you would never want to be the victim of gossip so please remember how you would feel before you speak negatively about others.
An easy way to escape the trap of being a part of gossip is to always Speak P.I.N.K. (POSITIVE, IMPORTANT, NECESSARY, KIND) Speak P.I.N.K.!
Don’t be a gossip girl. There is nothing P.I.N.K. about it.” Simeaka Melton
6 STEPS TO SPEAKING P.I.N.K.
P.I.N.K. Step #1
To avoid gossip, set the standard with your friends that you will only be apart of positive conversations.
P.I.N.K. Step #2
Surround yourself with those of like minds that choose to uplift others and not to break them down.
P.I.N.K. Step #3
Respect others by the conversations you are apart of in their absence.
P.I.N.K. Step #4
Speak about others the way you would want them to speak about you.
P.I.N.K. Step #5
Speaking negative about other shows your character not theirs.
Speak as a lady would speak. POSITIVE, IMPORTANT, NECESSARY, and KIND.
Simeaka Melton (Simeaka@gmail.com)